There will be times when things seemingly go sideways. When they were right side up and then suddenly upside down. You need to build the capacity to filter through the bullshit to see what’s really there. Consider:
- The person who derailed – what’s their perspective and motivation for derailment?
- The context – what else is going on that would cause this issue to occur?
- The outcome – what do you actually want to have happen? Could this derailment be a blessing in disguise?
- Why you’re upset – if the derailment is a new perspective or new information, embrace it. You don’t need to be right!
In the end, when things seemingly go awry, while you’re thrown off balance, the detour may take you down a better path – or not. Take detours as learning opportunities – don’t fight the ride – enjoy it – knowing in the end, we will have gained far more experience having gone through it.
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